Privacy Policy

1. Who we are

Wednesdate is operated by an individual, who is the data controller for the purposes of the UK and EU General Data Protection Regulation (GDPR). This section also serves as our statutory notice under § 5 of the German Digital Services Act (DDG).

We are not required to appoint a Data Protection Officer. Write to the address above with any privacy question and a real person will answer.

2. What we collect, and why

We collect only what the app needs to work. We do not buy data about you from anyone, and we do not enrich your profile from outside sources.

What we deliberately do not collect

We think this list matters as much as the one above. Wednesdate has:

• No location tracking. The app never requests GPS or location permission. Your city is a word you type.
• No analytics, advertising, attribution, or crash-reporting services. There is no Google, Meta, Firebase, or similar code in the app.
• No tracking across other apps or websites, and no advertising identifier (IDFA).
• No access to your photo library or camera. Photos are chosen through Apple’s picker, which hands us only the pictures you select.
• No access to your contacts, microphone, health, or motion data.
• No passwords — signing in is handled entirely by Apple.

This website

wednesdate.app is hosted by Vercel. To learn how many people visit and which pages they read, we use Vercel Web Analytics. It sets no cookies and stores nothing on your device. Each page view records the page, the site that linked you here, your approximate location (country, region, and city), and your browser, operating system, and device type. Visits within one day are grouped by a hash of the request that is discarded after 24 hours, so we cannot recognise you on a later day or tell who you are. We see only totals, and none of it is connected to your Wednesdate account.

3. Sensitive data and your explicit consent

Your gender combined with who you are seeking reveals your sexual orientation. Under Article 9 GDPR that is a special category of personal data with extra protection. Your photos also show what you look like, and may suggest your ethnicity.

We process this data on the basis of your explicit consent (Article 9(2)(a) GDPR), which you give when you tap through the sign-up screen. A dating app cannot function without it: matching you to the people you want to meet is the entire product.

You can withdraw that consent at any time by deleting your account in the app, under Profile → Account Centre → Delete Account. Withdrawing does not affect anything we did lawfully beforehand.

Your answers about the AI-generated portraits can say something about the kind of person you like, so we treat them with the same care, under the same consent.

We never use your photos for facial recognition or biometric identification. We do not measure your face, generate a faceprint, or attempt to identify you from a picture, and we do not permit our AI provider to do so.

4. How we use AI

Wednesdate matches you using artificial intelligence, and we would rather explain exactly how than hide it.

When you sign up, we may show you a set of AI-generated portraits and ask who you would go on a date with. The portraits are generated images, not members. We may use your answers, together with your other details, to help suggest your matches. They never stop you from being matched. You can ask us for a copy of your answers or to erase them (section 9).

When you finish your profile, we send your photos and your basic details (first name, age, height, gender, and who you are seeking) to our AI provider. The model writes a short private description of you — roughly 150 words about your apparent style, interests, and the kind of person you might click with. We store that description and use it only to make your matches. It is never shown to other users. No human at Wednesdate reads it as a matter of routine.

Every Wednesday, our system first narrows the field with ordinary database rules: it keeps only people whose stated preferences and yours are mutually compatible, who are in your city, and whom you have not been matched with before. It then sends that small group — descriptions, basic details, up to two photos each, and, where we use it, a short summary of your portrait answers — to the AI, which scores how well each possible pair might get on. A conventional, non-AI algorithm then reads those scores and picks the pairings. If nobody scores highly enough for you that week, you get no date, and we tell you so.

Our AI provider is xAI (the Grok model family), which processes these requests on servers in the European Union. xAI acts as our processor: it may use your data only to answer our requests, not for its own purposes. We do not use your data to train any AI model of our own.

Automated decision-making

To be plain: choosing your date is automated, and no human reviews it. We do not believe this produces legal effects or similarly significant effects on you within the meaning of Article 22 GDPR — being introduced to someone, or not, is not comparable to a decision about your credit, your job, or your rights. We disclose it anyway because you deserve to know.

The app shows you the AI’s short explanation of why you were paired, so the reasoning is not hidden from you. If you are unhappy with how you were matched, or want a person rather than a machine to look at it, email us and we will.

5. Our legal bases

6. Who sees your data

Your date sees your first name, age, height, gender, and your photos, once you are paired. Nobody else using Wednesdate can see your profile. If either of you blocks the other, the date disappears for both of you.

Our service providers, who process data only on our instructions:

We do not sell your personal data. We do not share it with advertisers, data brokers, or anyone for marketing. We would disclose data to law enforcement only where the law compels us, or to protect someone from serious harm. If Wednesdate were ever sold or merged, your data would transfer with it, and we would tell you before that happened.

7. Sending data outside the EU

We keep your data in the European Union wherever we can, and we call xAI’s European endpoint so that AI processing happens in the EU. However, Apple, xAI, and Vercel are United States companies, and some processing or support may take place there or in other countries. Where that happens we rely on the European Commission’s Standard Contractual Clauses, and on the EU–US Data Privacy Framework where the provider is certified under it. You may request a copy of the safeguards by writing to us.

8. How long we keep it

We keep your profile, photos, matches, and messages for as long as your account exists. When you delete your account we erase your profile, photos, portrait answers, AI description, opt-in history, matches, messages, push tokens, and blocks. Deletion is immediate and permanent; we cannot undo it. Reports you have filed are the one thing we keep, as explained below.

One exception, and only if you choose it. Before deleting your account, the app asks why you are leaving. If you answer, we keep your answer and anything you write with it, together with a short summary of how you used Wednesdate: how many weeks ago you joined, how far you got through sign-up, how many weeks you opted in, how many matches you had, and whether a chat got going. We keep this without your account or anything that names you, and with the week you left rather than the day. We use it only to improve Wednesdate, and we delete what you wrote after 12 months. If you skip the question, we keep only that someone skipped it that week.

Two honest caveats. First, messages you have already sent remain visible in your date’s copy of the conversation, in the same way an email you have sent stays in the recipient’s inbox. Second, a report you have filed is kept when you delete your account, so that we can still act on it. We remove your account from the report, but it keeps the reason you chose and its copy of the conversation, including your own messages. A report someone files about you also holds a copy of your conversation with them; it is erased when you delete your account. We delete every report, with its copies, 12 months after we have reviewed it. Backups may retain data for up to 30 days before they are overwritten.

9. Your rights

Under GDPR you have the right to:

• Access the personal data we hold about you, including the private description our AI wrote about you and your portrait answers, and receive a copy.
• Correct anything inaccurate — most of it you can edit in the app directly.
• Erase your data, which you can do yourself at any time by deleting your account.
• Restrict or object to our processing.
• Port your data to another service in a machine-readable format.
• Withdraw consent at any time, as described in section 3.

To exercise any of these, email wednesdate@protonmail.com. We answer within 30 days and it costs you nothing. We may ask you to confirm your identity first, so that nobody else can request your data.

If you think we have handled your data badly, please tell us — but you also have the right to complain to a supervisory authority. Ours is the Landesbeauftragter für den Datenschutz und die Informationsfreiheit Baden-Württemberg. You may also complain to the authority where you live.

10. How we protect your data

Everything travels over encrypted connections. Your photos live in a private store that is not readable from the public internet; they are shown to your date through short-lived links that expire. Every table in our database enforces row-level security, so the system itself prevents one user from reading another’s data rather than relying on us to remember. Sign-in is handled by Apple, so we never see or store a password.

No service can promise perfect security. If a breach ever affects your rights, we will notify you and the supervisory authority as the law requires.

11. Children

Wednesdate is strictly for adults aged 18 and over. We ask for your date of birth at sign-up and refuse accounts for anyone younger. We do not knowingly collect data from children. If you believe a minor is using Wednesdate, email us and we will remove the account promptly.

12. Changes to this policy

If we change how we handle your data we will update this page and change the date at the top. For anything significant — a new provider, a new purpose — we will notify you in the app before it takes effect, and ask for fresh consent where the law requires it.

13. Contact

Questions, requests, or complaints: wednesdate@protonmail.com. Postal address in section 1.